How to Make Sure You Have Time Alone During Your Wedding

I meet so many brides who tell me that they keep hearing from their friends who've gotten married that they won't have much time to spend with their groom. That they won't have much time to take a step back, breathe, and just enjoy a moment together...relishing in the fact that they just got married.

A wedding is meant to celebrate the marriage of two people, and yet weddings can be all sorts of emotions. Intense...exciting...overwhelming...emotional. It can go by in a blur, so fast that you look back at the end of the night, and think, "Did I even really get to see my new husband/wife?"

So how do two people who just want to soak it all in for a moment find a way to sneak off?

Here are 5 ideas and ways for you to make sure you have time alone during your wedding:

  1. Head to a separate room (or rooftop like Ryan & Jenny did).
  2. Do a First Look.
  3. Sneak away in a private room to sign your marriage license after the ceremony.
  4. If your wedding is at two separate venues, book a car for two, and take a ride around town before heading to the Reception.
  5. Eat dinner at a sweetheart table.

Be intentional about setting some time aside to spend with your new husband, even if it's just for 5-10 minutes. This day is about you. Your guests will be fine. I just don't recommend being gone for more than 20-30 minutes :)

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An absolutely stunning all white wedding bouquet as seen on  Style Me Pretty  | Photo by  McCune Photography  | Florals by  Bloomwell & Co.

An absolutely stunning all white wedding bouquet as seen on Style Me Pretty | Photo by McCune Photography | Florals by Bloomwell & Co.

Gold Dipped Oyster Shell Escort Cards as seen on  Southern Weddings  | Photo by  Tim Willoughby

Gold Dipped Oyster Shell Escort Cards as seen on Southern Weddings | Photo by Tim Willoughby

Loose half-up wedding hair as seen on  MOD Wedding  |  Hair and Makeup by Steph

Loose half-up wedding hair as seen on MOD Wedding | Hair and Makeup by Steph

Mint Juleps as seen on  Southern Weddings  | Photo by  Amy Arrington

Mint Juleps as seen on Southern Weddings | Photo by Amy Arrington

Tabletop as seen on  Ruffled  | Photo by  B. Jones Photography

Tabletop as seen on Ruffled | Photo by B. Jones Photography